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【題目】 It’s completely normal for friendships to be nervous at times, because two people don’t necessarily share the same tastes, ideas, or ways of seeing or doing things. If you and your friend disagree about something, the two of you might not listen to or understand each other. 【1】 When a conflict（矛盾）appears, it’s important to deal with it. Here is some advice that might be helpful when you deal with it.

◎【2】 Start by identifying（確認(rèn)）the situation that you’re having a problem with and what you’d like to change. For example, “I prefer to speak politely, not in this way...”

◎【3】 Tell your friend how the conflict makes you feel. For example, “it makes me very angry...”

◎Find out possible solutions. Together with your friend, find out possible solutions. You can even write them down on a piece of paper. 【4】

◎Assess（評(píng)價(jià)）the solutions. Assess all the solutions with your friends. Are any of the solutions realistic? Do any of them satisfy both of you? Will any of them solve the problem?

◎Come to an agreement. Together with your friend, choose the solutions you prefer and come to an agreement.

◎Reassess. Some time later, check if the agreement has been respected and if the problem has been solved. 【5】 If the solution you chose hasn’t worked, you can try another.

A. Describe the problem.

B. Name your feelings.

C. That’s when a conflict comes up.

D. Different conflicts come up for different reasons.

E. At this stage, any idea is a start, so write them all down!

F. Take the time to talk to your friend and review your experiences.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】C

【2】A

【3】B

【4】E

【5】F

【解析】

本文是一篇說明文。主要介紹了當(dāng)朋友間發(fā)生沖突時(shí)，我們?cè)撊绾螒?yīng)對(duì)。短文對(duì)此給出了幾條有效的建議。

【1】句意：這時(shí)就會(huì)出現(xiàn)沖突。

根據(jù)空前一句“If you and your friend disagree about something...”及常識(shí)可知“互相不理解可能會(huì)導(dǎo)致矛盾的產(chǎn)生”，再結(jié)合空后一句“When a conflict（矛盾）appears...”及備選項(xiàng)可知C項(xiàng)符合語境。故選C。

【2】句意：描述這個(gè)問題。

根據(jù)空后一句“Start by identifying（確認(rèn)）the situation that you’re having a problem with and what you’d like to change.”可知，空處與描述問題或者情境有關(guān)，結(jié)合備選項(xiàng)可知A項(xiàng)符合語境。故選A。

【3】句意：給你的感受命名。

根據(jù)空后一句“Tell your friend how the conflict makes you feel.”可知，空處與感受有關(guān)，結(jié)合備選項(xiàng)可知B項(xiàng)符合語境。故選B。

【4】句意：在這個(gè)階段，任何想法都是一個(gè)開始，所以把它們都寫下來！

根據(jù)空前一句“You can even write them down on a piece of paper.”可知，此處與寫下來有關(guān)，結(jié)合備選項(xiàng)可知E項(xiàng)符合語境。故選E。

【5】句意：花點(diǎn)時(shí)間和你的朋友聊聊，回顧一下你的經(jīng)歷。

根據(jù)本段中的“Reassess”以及空格前后句可知，此處應(yīng)該是抽時(shí)間與朋友交談，回顧經(jīng)歷，看問題是否解決，如果沒有解決，可以嘗試其他的方法。結(jié)合備選項(xiàng)可知F項(xiàng)符合語境。故選F。

第1小題易錯(cuò)選D項(xiàng)�？忌�可能直接從上文中得出此處與矛盾的原因有關(guān)，未能結(jié)合上下文內(nèi)容推斷出，此處是指當(dāng)人們互相不理解的時(shí)候就是矛盾發(fā)生的時(shí)候。