Question

【題目】

Living and dealing with kids can be a hard job these days, but living and dealing with parents can be even harder.

If I have learned anything in my 16 years, it is that communication is very important, both when you disagree and when you get along. With any relationship*, you need to let other person know how you are feeling. If you are not able to communicate*, you can not be close to anyone. When you are mad at your parents, or anyone else, not talking to them doesn’t solve anything.

Communication begins with the care of another. It means that you can’t just come home from school, go up to your room and ignore* everyone. Even if you just say “Hi”, and see how their day was for five minutes, it is better than nothing. To keep a good relationship, you must keep communication strong. Let people know how you feel, even if it’s just by writing a note.

When dealing with parents, you always have to make them feel good about how they are doing as a parent. If you are trying to make them see something as you see it, tell them that you’ll listen to what they have to say, but ask them politely to listen to you. Shouting or walking away only makes the situation worse.

Here is an example: One night, Sophie went to a street party with her friends. She knew she had to be home by midnight after the fireworks, but she didn’t feel she could just ask to go home. That would be rude. After all, they had been nice enough to take her along with them. Needless to say, she was late getting home. Her parents were mad at first, but when Sophie explained why she was late, they weren’t as mad and let the incident*go. Communication is the key factor* here. If Sophie’s parents had not been willing to listen, Sophie would have been in a lot of trouble.

Communication isn’t a one-way deal: it goes both ways. Just remember: if you get into a situation like Sophie’s, telling the other person how you feel--listening is the key factor to communication.

【1】In the writer’s opinion, dealing with parents is ________ than with children.

A. easier B. more careless C. more difficult D. more interesting

【2】The main idea of the second paragraph is ________.

A. the importance of friendship B. the importance of communication

C. to make your feeling known to others D. the disagreement between parents and children

【3】Sophie’s example here is used to show that ____________.

A. Sophie is very polite to her parents

B. It’s OK to come back home late at night.

C. Sophie’s parents are very kind and listen to her

D. communication is the way to solve misunderstanding

【4】All the following are TRUE except “________”.

A. Communication is a two-way deal.

B. If you are not able to communicate, walk away.

C. It is better to say “Hi” to others than saying nothing.

D. If you don’t agree with others, you’d better let them know.

【5】In addition to (除了) listening, what else do you think is important in dealing with parents? Why?

____________________________________________________________________________________

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】C

【2】B

【3】D

【4】B

【5】_I think it is also very important to help parents do some housework. Because they

are very busy._ (言之有理即可, 如做卡片，買禮物，表達(dá)愛意等)_

【解析】這篇短文主要講述了交流與溝通是一個(gè)在父母與孩子之間的長久話題，只是在面對(duì)時(shí)，我們的處理方式往往不夠冷靜，其實(shí)只要相互理解多問一下原因，另一方能夠冷靜的解釋，一切都能解決的，文章中的這個(gè)例子就是最好的證明。生活中何常不是如此。

【1】根據(jù)文中Living and dealing with kids can be a hard job these days, but living and dealing with parents can be even harder.可知答案。作者認(rèn)為是困難的。故選C。

【2】通讀整個(gè)第二段可知，主要是講述了交流的重要性。故選B。

【3】根據(jù)文中列舉Sophie的列子可知，溝通是解決誤解的方法。故選D

【4】通讀正派呢短文可知A. Communication is a two-way deal.； It is better to say “Hi” to others than saying nothing.；If you don’t agree with others, you’d better let them know.是正確的。故選B。

【5】為了解決和父母的問題，我們可以幫助他們做一些事情，因?yàn)樗麄兒苊�，。故填I(lǐng) think it is also very important to help parents do some housework. Because they are very busy.