Just listen

I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen.Just listen Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our  36 ,and especially if it’s given from the  37 .When people are talking,there’s no need to do anything but  38  them.Just take them  39 .Listen to what they’re saying.Care about it.Most times caring about it is even more important than  40 it.

One of my patients told me that when she  41  to tell her story,people often  42  to tell her that they had once had something just like what happened to her.Subtly,her pain became a story about themselves. 43  she stopped talking to most people.It was just too  44 .We connect through listening.When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand.we move the  45  of attention to ourselves.But when we listen,they know we care.

I have ever learned to  46  to someone crying by just listening.in the old days I used to reach for the tissues (紙巾)  47  I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them  48 ,to take them out of their  49  of sadness and pain Now I just listen.When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there  50  them.

This  51  thing has not been that easy to learn.It certainly went against everything I had been  52  since I was very young at school.I thought people listened only because they were too 53  to speak or did not know the answer.A loving silence often has far more  54  to connect than the most well-intentioned  55

36.A.introduction  

B.instruction   

C.attention     

D.relaxation

37.A.head        

B.memory    

C.mind        

D.heart

38 .A.talk to      

B.listen to    

C.object to     

D.stick to

39.A.in          

B.up         

C.off          

D.away

40.A.denying     

B.remembering

C.questioning   

D.understanding

41.A.managed    

B.tried       

C.hoped        

D.expected

42.A.encouraged   

B.interrupted  

C.discouraged  

D.urged

43.A.Eventually   

B.Immediately 

C.Completely  

D.Especially

44.A.impolite     

B.meaningless 

C.lonely       

D.selfish

45.A.middle      

B.focus       

C.center       

D.choice

46.A.respond     

B.compare     

C.link         

D.regret

47.A.unless       

B.if          

C.until        

D.when

48.A.down        

B.away       

C.in          

D.off

49.A.experiment   

B.mixture     

C.judgment    

D.experience

50.A.with         

B.against     

C.for         

D.among

51.A.complex      

B.simple     

C.complicated  

D.single

52.A.mentioned     

B.published  

C.taught        

D.proved

53.A.shy          

B.greedy     

C.active       

D.proud

54.A.strength      

B.energy     

C.power       

D.force

55.A.gestures      

B.praise      

C.criticism     

D.words

 

36-40 CDBAD   41-45 BBACB    46-50 ACADA    51-55 BCACD

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科目:高中英語 來源:2010年河北省邯鄲市高二上學(xué)期期末考試英語卷 題型:完型填空

閱讀下面短文,從短文后各題所給的四個(gè)選項(xiàng)(A、B、C和D)中,選出可以填入空白處的最佳選項(xiàng),并在答題卡上將該項(xiàng)涂黑。
Just listen
I think  the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our  16 ,and especially if it’s given from the  17 .When people are talking,there’s no need to do anything but  18    them.Just take them  19 .Listen to what they’re saying.Care about it.Most times caring about it is even more important than  20  it.
One of my patients told me that when she  21  to tell her story,people often  22  to tell her that they had once had something just like what happened to her.Her pain became a story about themselves.  23  she stopped talking to most people.It was just too  24 .We connect through listening.When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand,we move the  25  of attention to ourselves.But when we listen,they know we care.
I have ever learned to  26  to someone crying by just listening.in the old days I used to reach for the tissues (紙巾)  27  I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them  28 ,to take them out of their   29  of sadness and pain. Now I just listen.When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there  30   them.
This  31  thing has not been that easy to learn.It certainly went against everything I had been   32  since I was very young at school.I thought people listened only because they were too  33  to speak or did not know the answer.A loving silence often has far more   34   to connect than the most well-intentioned  35 .

【小題1】
A.introductionB.instructionC.a(chǎn)ttentionD.relaxation
【小題2】
A.headB.memoryC.mindD.heart
【小題3】
A.talk toB.listen toC.object toD.stick to
【小題4】
A.inB.upC.offD.a(chǎn)way
【小題5】
A.denyingB.rememberingC.questioningD.understanding
【小題6】
A.managedB.triedC.hopedD.expected
【小題7】
A.encouragedB.interruptedC.discouragedD.urged
【小題8】
A.EventuallyB.Immediately C.CompletelyD.Especially
【小題9】
A.impoliteB.meaninglessC.lonelyD.selfish
【小題10】
A.middleB.focusC.centerD.choice
【小題11】
A.respondB.compareC.linkD.regret
【小題12】
A.unlessB.ifC.untilD.when
【小題13】
A.downB.a(chǎn)wayC.inD.off
【小題14】
A.experimentB.mixtureC.judgmentD.experience
【小題15】
A.withB.a(chǎn)gainstC.forD.a(chǎn)mong
【小題16】
A.complexB.simpleC.complicatedD.single
【小題17】
A.mentionedB.publishedC.taughtD.proved
【小題18】
A.shyB.greedyC.a(chǎn)ctiveD.proud
【小題19】
A.strengthB.energyC.powerD.force
【小題20】
A.gesturesB.praiseC.criticismD.words

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科目:高中英語 來源:2012-2013學(xué)年福建省安溪一中高二上學(xué)期期中考試英語試卷(帶解析) 題型:完型填空

Just listen
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our  36  , and especially if it’s given from the 37 . When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but 38 them. Just take them  39 . Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than  40 it.
One of my patients told me that when she 41  to tell her story, people often  42  to tell her that they had once had something just like what happened to her. Subtly, her pain became a story about themselves.   43  she stopped talking to most people. It was just too 44 . We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the 45  of attention to ourselves. But when we listen, they know we care.
I have ever learned to 46  to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(紙巾)  47 I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them  48 , to take them out of their  49 of sadness and pain. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there 50  them.
This 51  thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been  52  since I was very young at school. I thought people listened only because they were too  53 to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has far more 54  to connect than the most well-intentioned(善意的) 55 .

【小題1】
A.introductionB.instructionC.a(chǎn)ttentionD.relaxation
【小題2】
A.headB.memoryC.mindD.heart
【小題3】
A.talk toB.listen toC.object to(反對(duì))D.stick to(堅(jiān)持)
【小題4】
A.in B.upC.offD.a(chǎn)way
【小題5】
A.denying(否認(rèn))B.rememberingC.questioningD.understanding
【小題6】
A.managedB.triedC.hopedD.expected
【小題7】
A.encouragedB.interruptedC.discouragedD.urged
【小題8】
A.EventuallyB.ImmediatelyC.CompletelyD.Especially
【小題9】
A.impoliteB.meaninglessC.lonelyD.selfish
【小題10】
A.middleB.focusC.centerD.choice
【小題11】
A.respondB.compareC.linkD.regret
【小題12】
A.unlessB.ifC.untilD.when
【小題13】
A.downB.a(chǎn)wayC.inD.off
【小題14】
A.experimentB.mixtureC.judgmentD.experience
【小題15】
A.withB.a(chǎn)gainstC.forD.a(chǎn)mong
【小題16】
A.complex(費(fèi)解的)B.simpleC.singleD.complicated(復(fù)雜的)
【小題17】
A.mentionedB.publishedC.taughtD.proved
【小題18】
A.shyB.greedyC.a(chǎn)ctiveD.proud
【小題19】
A.strengthB.energyC.powerD.force
【小題20】
A.gesturesB.praiseC.criticismD.words

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