8.You feel happiest when you create a healthy balance between giving and receiving.If you give and give without making time to fill your own needs,then it's likely you will burn out,or feel upset.When you take and take without giving anything back,you never feel fulfilled,so you are always searching for ways to fill the void in your life.
The way to create a healthy balance between giving and receiving is to know and then live by your values.I break values up into two groups which I call being values and having values.Your being values are the personalities of the ideal person you would like to be.I suggest to my clients that they choose three being values that they are willing to make a promise to live by.An example of some being values are:kind,loving,generous,peaceful,wise and even powerful.By acting on these values you give'to others through your actions and you inspire others by being a positive role model.Mastering being these personalities becomes your life purpose.
Your having values are the feelings you need to create in order to be happy.These could be companionship,achievement,support,being valued or financial security.This is what you receive.You take responsibility for filling your own needs by taking steps to create these feelings and conditions in your life.
When you make a promise to live by your being values,it becomes easier to make conscious (慎重的) choices rather than reactionary (反動(dòng)的) ones.If your usual pattern is to talk about your problems,you could choose to think and act like a calm person.A calm person might go for a walk,or set a time limit before responding.If your usual pattern is to worry,you could choose to act like a responsible or wise person.In other words,you would act like the person you choose to be-this is the key to personal power.
When you choose to act on your values,you will not only feel good about yourself,but also strengthen your chosen beliefs.Over time,acting in this way changes how you see the world,and in turn the way other people think of you.
25.The main purpose of this passage is to.C
A.persuade the readers to make a promise
B.explain to the readers what personal values are
C.inform the readers how to be truly happy
D.instruct the readers how to make wise choices
26.According to the text,living by your being values,you wouldB.
A.gain a lot of power B.form positive personality
C.seek all human virtues D.fill your own needs
27.The underlined word"void"in Paragraph l meansA.
A.a(chǎn) feeling of emptiness B.a(chǎn)n absence of one's mind
C.a(chǎn) break of continuity D.a(chǎn) state of confusion
28.What can be inferred from the text?B
A.Having values are better than being values.
B.A calm person does not choose to complain.
C.The way other people think of you decides who you are.
D.A responsible person does not care about financial security.
分析 本文屬于說明文閱讀,作者通過這篇文章主要向我們描述了如果我們要想幸福,就要在奉獻(xiàn)和接受之間取得一個(gè)平衡.告訴我們?nèi)绾尾拍茏屪约赫嬲腋#?/p>
解答 25.C.主旨大意題.根據(jù)文章第一段內(nèi)容You feel happiest when you create a healthy balance between giving and receiving.可知本文主要講述的是如果我們要想幸福,就要在奉獻(xiàn)和接受之間取得一個(gè)平衡.故C正確.
26.B.推理判斷題.根據(jù)文章第二段suggest to my clients that they choose three being values that they are willing to make a commitment to live by.An example of some being values are:kind,loving,generous,inspirational,peaceful,wise and even powerful.By acting on these values you give to others through your actions and you inspire others by being a positive role model.可知如果我們以being value的方式在生活,我們會(huì)更加積極向上.故B正確.
27.A.推理判斷題.根據(jù)本句When you take and take without giving anything back,you never feel fulfilled,so you are always searching for ways to fill the void in your life.可知,當(dāng)你總是在接受接受,你永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)滿足,總是在尋找方法來填平你心里的不滿足的狀態(tài).故A正確.
28.B.推理判斷題.根據(jù)文章倒數(shù)第二段A calm person might go for a walk,meditate,or set a time limit before responding.可知真正平靜的人在做出回應(yīng)之前是要仔細(xì)考慮的,所以C項(xiàng)會(huì)是他們所做的事情.故B正確.
點(diǎn)評(píng) 考察學(xué)生的細(xì)節(jié)理解和推理判斷能力,做細(xì)節(jié)理解題時(shí)一定要找到文章中的原句,和題干進(jìn)行比較,再做出正確的選擇.在做推理判斷題不要以個(gè)人的主觀想象代替文章的事實(shí),要根據(jù)文章事實(shí)進(jìn)行合乎邏輯的推理判斷.