As a child grows out of being an infant and begins to
notice and react to the world around him, you may find yourself wondering how
you possibly impart all of the things that he needs to become a responsible,
respectful adult. 1. A
child who learns to respect all he meets not only receives respect from others,
but also learns to respect himself as well.
Show your child respect. This is perhaps the best way
to teach your child how to
respect others. Listen to your child by giving him
your full attention and he will learn to listen to you, understanding how
important this is in communication.
2.
The more you say
“please” and “thank you” to your child, the more likely
he will learn to use them with you and others.
Politeness then becomes a normal part of any conversation.
Agree to disagree. 3.
Explain your decision so that he will understand your
reasoning and expect respectful responses. Disagreeing
with you doesn’t equate to disobedience.
Control your impulse to overact. When a situation
arises between you and your
child that requires calmness, keep in mind that you
are supposed to be modelling correct behaviour. 4.
Praise, praise, praise! So much is focused on what a
child does wrong and how to
correct it that the accomplishments are not celebrated
enough. 5.
A. Teach manners by using polite requests and
responses.
B. Try to remember that a child won’t always agree
with you.
C. Respect is necessary for a meaningful and
successful life.
D. If he sees you lose temper, he is more likely to
respond that way in future.
E. A child may act like he pleases, but will respect
being given limits.
F. When you see your child exhibit respectful
behaviour, make sure he knows just how proud you are of him.
G. Setting a good example is the best way to start a
child on the path to respect.