What he said and what he did ________ her feelings.

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What he said and what he did ________ her feelings.

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26．A．hardly                   B．seldom                 C．ever              D．never

27．A．so                          B．but                        C．a(chǎn)nd                D．then

28．A．Before             B．When                   C．While             D．Since

29．A．something       B．a(chǎn)nything           C．everything        D．nothing

30．A．crying              B．running                 C．talking            D．saying

31．A．kept                        B．started                  C．stopped         D．hated

32．A．hurt                       B．a(chǎn)che              C．injure             D．wound

33．A．got                          B．received                  C．a(chǎn)ccepted       D．a(chǎn)dmitted

34．A．many                      B．some                    C．a(chǎn)ny              D．no

35．A．soon                   B．quickly             C．suddenly        D．fast

36．A．surprisingly       B．a(chǎn)ngrily                C．sadly   D．cheerfully

37．A．building                  B．buying                 C．making          D．repairing

38．A．shouldn’t                B．won’t                     C．daren’t       D．can’t

39．A．polite                      B．cruel               C．rude              D．nice

40．A．get over         B．get away                 C．get along     D．get through

41．A．for                          B．on                         C．by                D．in

42．A．did                          B．followed            C．went            D．worked

43．A．full                          B．incomplete              C．half             D．undivided

44．A．sent out          B．threw out         C．put out            D．poured out

45．A．expressed    B．showed        C．said              D．strengthened

Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying. “I hate her! I hate her! I will __26__   play with her again!” Finally, her steps slowed,  __27__  she told her father what had happened. He listened attentively.   __28__   she stopped, he asked, “Is there __29__  else?” Dahlia added more details and began  __30__  bitterly again. Father was listening. When Dahlia   __31__  talking, he said, “It must __32__ you to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina.” Dahlia  __33__  her father’s embrace（擁抱）and support as she cried  __34__  more in his arms. Then as  __35__   as the storm of tears began, she was finished. She got up and  _36__  announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are  __37__   a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I   __38__   ruin her work again, and I’m sure she will be  __39__ to me. ”

　　Why was this encounter (sudden meeting) so successful? How did Dahlia __40__  her sadness so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter __41__  her own?

　　There were three main parts in her father’s reaction that   __42__  : (A) Attention (B) Respect (C) Trust. He gave his daughter __43__ attention and took her seriously as she   __44__  her feelings. He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help. He validated（證實）the feelings she __45__ . And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions.

1.                A．hardly          B．seldom         C．ever     D．never

 

2.                A．so             B．but            C．a(chǎn)nd  D．then

 

3.                A．Before         B．When          C．While    D．Since

 

4.                A．something      B．a(chǎn)nything        C．everything D．nothing

 

5.                A．crying          B．running         C．talking    D．saying

 

6.                A．kept           B．started         C．stopped  D．hated

 

7.                A．hurt           B．a(chǎn)che           C．injure    D．wound

 

8.                A．got            B．received        C．a(chǎn)ccepted D．a(chǎn)dmitted

 

9.                A．many          B．some           C．a(chǎn)ny  D．no

 

10.               A．soon           B．quickly         C．suddenly D．fast

 

11.               A．surprisingly     B．a(chǎn)ngrily         C．sadly D．cheerfully

 

12.               A．building        B．buying         C．making    D．repairing

 

13.               A．shouldn’t      B．won’t         C．daren’t  D．can’t

 

14.               A．polite          B．cruel          C．rude D．nice

 

15.               A．get over        B．get away        C．get along  D．get through

 

16.               A．for            B．on            C．by   D．in

 

17.               A．did            B．followed        C．went D．worked

 

18.               A．full            B．incomplete      C．half   D．undivided

 

19.               A．sent out        B．threw out       C．put out    D．poured out

 

20.               A．expressed      B．showed         C．said D．strengthened

 

 

Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying. “I hate her! I hate her! I will __36__   play with her again!” Finally, her steps slowed,  __37__  she told her father what had happened. He listened attentively.   __38__   she stopped, he asked, “Is there __39__  else?” Dahlia added more details and began  __40__  bitterly again. Father was listening. When Dahlia   __41__  talking, he said, “It must __42__ you to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina.” Dahlia  __43__  her father’s embrace（擁抱）and support as she cried  __44__  more in his arms. Then as  __45__   as the storm of tears began, she was finished. She got up and  __46__  announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are  __47__   a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I   __48__   ruin her work again, and I’m sure she will be  __49__ to me. ”

　　Why was this encounter (sudden meeting) so successful? How did Dahlia __50__  her sadness so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter __51__  her own?

　　There were three main parts in her father’s reaction that   __52__  : (A) Attention (B) Respect (C) Trust. He gave his daughter __53__ attention and took her seriously as she   __54__  her feelings. He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help. He validated（證實）the feelings she __55__ . And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions.

1.                A．hardly          B．seldom         C．ever     D．never

 

2.                A．so             B．but            C．a(chǎn)nd  D．then

 

3.                A．Before         B．When          C．While    D．Since

 

4.                A．something      B．a(chǎn)nything        C．everything D．nothing

 

5.                A．crying          B．running         C．talking    D．saying

 

6.                A．kept           B．started         C．stopped  D．hated

 

7.                A．hurt           B．a(chǎn)che           C．injure    D．wound

 

8.                A．got            B．received        C．a(chǎn)ccepted D．a(chǎn)dmitted

 

9.                A．many          B．some           C．a(chǎn)ny  D．no

 

10.               A．soon           B．quickly         C．suddenly D．fast

 

11.               A．surprisingly     B．a(chǎn)ngrily         C．sadly D．cheerfully

 

12.               A．building        B．buying         C．making    D．repairing

 

13.               A．shouldn’t      B．won’t         C．daren’t  D．can’t

 

14.               A．polite          B．cruel          C．rude D．nice

 

15.               A．get over        B．get away        C．get along  D．get through

 

16.               A．for            B．on            C．by   D．in

 

17.               A．did            B．followed        C．went D．worked

 

18.               A．full            B．incomplete      C．half   D．undivided

 

19.               A．sent out        B．threw out       C．put out    D．poured out

 

20.               A．expressed      B．showed         C．said D．strengthened