If you're like a lot of married guys, you don't need to be reminded about men being from Mars or women from Venus. Chances are that you're all too familiar with the feeling that you and your wife are from different worlds. The way to have a successful marriage is through communication, common ground and understanding. Here are some pointers to guide you in the right direction.
Pointer 1. Realize nobody can wave a magic wand to make you and your wife completely understand each other all the time. Accept the difference.
Pointer 2.   Rather than ending up in an endless back and forth, forget about the issue for a minute. Instead, think about how you feel she's acting toward you and ask her if that's how she feels about you. Switching the focus to that shared feeling can help your wife see things from your point of view.
Pointer 3.  Rather than feel offended if you find out she's not as into your favorite hobby as you thought, appreciate the effort she put into making you happy. Swallow your pride and try to take part in some of her hobbies, too, even if you might be a little put off at first. While you're not going to be trying on makeup with her, you could try baking a recipe together.
Pointer 4.  If either of you is always giving everything and getting nothing in return, there's going to be bitterness. The best marriages are built on compromise. You knew you were going to have to give and take for your marriage to work; now it's time to make it happen.
【小題1】The best subtitle of Pointer 3 is ________.

A．Find out her hobbies
B．Swallow your pride (at least sometimes)
C．Don’t get offended
D．Try to make up
【小題2】According to the last paragraph, it’s important for the husband and wife to__________.
A．give and take
B．get everything and return nothing
C．live and let live
D．forgive and forget
【小題3】Which of the following is NOT good for keeping a successful marriage?
A．Try to understand each other all the way.
B．Don't play the blame game.
C．Focus on the feeling to get past the disagreement.
D．She won't always understand you (but that's OK).


【小題1】B
【小題2】A
【小題3】A

解析試題分析：文章主要給出了給觀點(diǎn)不同的婚姻雙方的一些建議，從男方的視角入手，強(qiáng)調(diào)互相的理解與支持，才能化解矛盾。
【小題1】標(biāo)題選擇題。第六段主要說的是在興趣不相投是要學(xué)會(huì)Swallow your pride and try to take part in some of her hobbies，所以選B
【小題2】細(xì)節(jié)題。根據(jù)文章最后一段，you were going to have to give and take for your marriage to work，可知需要給予和索取才能維持正常的婚姻。選擇A。
考點(diǎn)：考查日常生活類短文
【小題3】細(xì)節(jié)題。根據(jù)第二段Realize nobody can wave a magic wand to make you and your wife completely understand each other all the time. Accept the difference.可知婚姻中是不可能完全一直相互理解的，所以選擇A。

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