19.We can make mistakes at any age.Some mistakes we make are about money,but most mistakes are about people."Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?""When I got that great job,did Jim really feel good about it,as a friend?Or did he envy my luck?"When we look back,doubts like these can make us feel ba d.But when we look back,it's too late.
Why did we go wrong about our friends or our enemies?Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning.And if we don't really listen,we miss the feeling behind the words.Suppose someone tells you,"You're a lucky dog."Is he really on your side?If he says,"You're a lucky guy!"that's being friendly.But"lucky dog"?There's a bit of envy in those words.What he may be saying is that he doesn't think you deserve your luck.
"Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for"is another noise that says one thing and means another.It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem.But this phrase contains the thought that your problem isn't important.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone's words?One way is to take a good look at the person talking.Do his words fit the way he looks?Does what he says shown by the tone of voice?The look in his eyes?Stop and think.The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
24.By saying"You're a lucky dog,"the s peakerC.
A.is just being friendly
B.expresses the same meaning as"You're a lucky guy"
C.may has a hidden jealous feeling behind the words
D.is humorous to apply the word"dog"to people
25.In listening to a person,the important thing isC.
A.to notice his tone,his posture,and his clothes
B.to listen to how he pronounces his words
C.to check his words against his manner,his tone of voice.
D.not to believe what he says
26.This passage tries to tell you how toD.
A.avoid mistakes about both money and people
B.say things elegantly
C.keep people friendly without trusting them
D.avoid mistakes in understanding what people tell you.
分析 本文主要告訴我們在與人交往的過程當中容易犯的錯誤就是誤解對方,表面說的是一個意思而實際想要表達的是另外一個意思.本文教會大家如何真正理解他人表達的意思,避免誤會.
解答 24.C 細節(jié)題.根據文章第二段內容,"You're a lucky dog."Is he really on your side?If he says,"You're a lucky guy!"that's being friendly.But"lucky dog"?There's a bit of envy in those words.可知,如果對方說你是一個幸運的家伙,那是友好的.若說的是lucky dog,那么是有一點嫉妒心理在話里的,結合選項,故選C.
25.C 細節(jié)題.根據文章內容The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake 你花時間來思考人們對你說的話的真正的含義,可以幫你避免另外的錯誤.因此仔細傾聽和體會是非常重要的,結合選項,故選C
26.D 主旨大意題.根據文章內容主要講述了人們在日常交際時容易對別人的話誤解,本文給出一些建議和方法來解決該類文題,結合選項,故選D
點評 本文是一個科教類閱讀理解,題目涉及多道細節(jié)理解題,做題時結合原文和題目有針對性的找出相關語句進行仔細分析,結合選項選出正確答案.推理判斷題也是要在抓住關鍵句子的基礎上合理的分析才能得出正確答案,切忌胡亂猜測,一定要做到有理有據.